tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post116314189406918689..comments2023-10-11T00:09:04.503+11:00Comments on Mrs Negative: Home is where the Heart is. And my hairdryer.Monyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00742317718027412003noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1164091444058138992006-11-21T17:44:00.000+11:002006-11-21T17:44:00.000+11:00Mony, it appears you have your very own troll. As...Mony, it appears you have your very own troll. As it doesn't even come close to deserving any of your time or energy, let's never speak of it again!<BR/><BR/>You are a beautiful woman, and I'm braver, stronger, and more courageous just having known you.<BR/>Thanks.<BR/>-D.Dramalishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02596864687460087812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1164077141315207132006-11-21T13:45:00.000+11:002006-11-21T13:45:00.000+11:00Anonymous, your comment shows a deep lack of respe...Anonymous, your comment shows a deep lack of respect. I'm pretty sure Mrs. Negative's vows didn't involve suffering silently through emotional abuse.<BR/><BR/>I'm so glad you're working it out w/ your husband. I wish you the very best of luck as you do what it takes to move forward in life.queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00539184323507342634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1164063988752580482006-11-21T10:06:00.000+11:002006-11-21T10:06:00.000+11:00so, you think the solution to your husband's deep ...so, you think the solution to your husband's deep pain and inability to cope is to abandon him? I don't understand when people give up on their vows so quickly in the face of a challenge. In joy and in sorrow??!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163637841800864602006-11-16T11:44:00.000+11:002006-11-16T11:44:00.000+11:00When we were in the shits we went to get some help...When we were in the shits we went to get some help and talked to a pshychotherapist. I was a bit cynical at first but in just a few sessions he realy sorted us out. It's well worth a try. It also gives you an idea whether he's really willing to give it some effort. Guys often don't like to look into realtionships that close up. I hope you guys work it out!heleen + rodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04660444479596028327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163561090116619982006-11-15T14:24:00.000+11:002006-11-15T14:24:00.000+11:00Sometimes when people say things like you're so br...Sometimes when people say things like you're so brave, strong and courageous - the subtext is that you're doing something they can't imagine doing themselves.<BR/><BR/>You've made a stand, and because of that, most likely you will have saved your relationship. <BR/><BR/>You deserve a great relationship (and much more besides).Sparklehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03105677499048659242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163543943363626442006-11-15T09:39:00.000+11:002006-11-15T09:39:00.000+11:00Bloody oath you are!Bloody oath you are!Eggs Akimbohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12729283040825906242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163492508041460072006-11-14T19:21:00.000+11:002006-11-14T19:21:00.000+11:00came here from Andrew's blog(love, honor and disma...came here from Andrew's blog(love, honor and dismay). Kudos to you and hope you and your husband rediscover what was beautiful in your llove for each other.hillgrandmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01805698959846687562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163433788878669282006-11-14T03:03:00.000+11:002006-11-14T03:03:00.000+11:00Feeling the exact opposite and yet doing what you ...Feeling the exact opposite and yet doing what you know to be right is the definition of true courage & strength.<BR/><BR/>I am hoping that you and your husband can find that gold in the dust there somewhere.<BR/><BR/>Love to you, Mony.Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765237663006604157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163428490067375542006-11-14T01:34:00.000+11:002006-11-14T01:34:00.000+11:00This sounds much much more positive! I wish you al...This sounds much much more positive! I wish you all the best and luck for you and your husband to work through this! You are so so strong!<BR/><BR/>Hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163425626732463012006-11-14T00:47:00.000+11:002006-11-14T00:47:00.000+11:00Hi Mony,Thanks for agreeing to let me share your s...Hi Mony,<BR/>Thanks for agreeing to let me share your story. I did so this morning.<BR/><BR/>I hope things are going well for you and your husband.<BR/><BR/>Andrew ("To Love, Honor and Dismay")Andrew McAllisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07210761023973607515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163409082533576622006-11-13T20:11:00.000+11:002006-11-13T20:11:00.000+11:00I am so sorry it took a drastic action to make pro...I am so sorry it took a drastic action to make problems be realised. <BR/><BR/>Let the healing begin, whereever that takes you both.<BR/><BR/>Brave. Strong. Courageous<BR/><BR/>Yes - You are!Bugsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09858450584684501269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163390506307326912006-11-13T15:01:00.000+11:002006-11-13T15:01:00.000+11:00Yes, Yes and Yes.Oh Mony. Good on you for being ac...Yes, Yes and Yes.<BR/><BR/>Oh Mony. Good on you for being active with this. I'm sorry and I hope that things resolve for you soon and that you find your gold.<BR/><BR/><BR/>xxOvaGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12150362175853549015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163384895911570212006-11-13T13:28:00.000+11:002006-11-13T13:28:00.000+11:00I'm so glad to hear that things are going in a bet...I'm so glad to hear that things are going in a better direction.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there--sending a lot of strength your way.Lollipop Goldsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163379634558428942006-11-13T12:00:00.000+11:002006-11-13T12:00:00.000+11:00Oh Mony - I have only just found out what happened...Oh Mony - I have only just found out what happened to you.<BR/><BR/>YOU are incredibly brave to have made that very important decision yourself - and stood by it. I hope soon, like you said, be the man you married once again. In the mean time - I will be thinking of you and hope you take time out for yourself and be good to yourself. Take care - and keep writing!Drewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00233765960065598372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163329974552360052006-11-12T22:12:00.000+11:002006-11-12T22:12:00.000+11:00sounds like things are proceding along the right t...sounds like things are proceding along the right track....<BR/><BR/>take care of yourself...LLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08387580774016694162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163302158924331532006-11-12T14:29:00.000+11:002006-11-12T14:29:00.000+11:00Way to go Mony! I know that was a very hard and v...Way to go Mony! I know that was a very hard and very scary step to take. Being brave doesn't mean not being scared, it just means taking the required action despite the fear. I really hope this was exactly what your relationship needed and that you are both able to develop communication skills that allow you to express yourself and not lose your temper.<BR/><BR/>I am thinking about you!Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16771351540802344987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163276727966253512006-11-12T07:25:00.000+11:002006-11-12T07:25:00.000+11:00That sounds very positive mony, I'm pleased that t...That sounds very positive mony, I'm pleased that things are moving in the right direction.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163215818618903342006-11-11T14:30:00.000+11:002006-11-11T14:30:00.000+11:00I am glad that you are finding your truth. You ar...I am glad that you are finding your truth. You are very much an example to the rest of the world!!!Mayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00727987440275720615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163214943720187772006-11-11T14:15:00.000+11:002006-11-11T14:15:00.000+11:00wow. I am just catching up- I hope that things go...wow. I am just catching up- I hope that things go well for you and that you and your husband can work things out and find gold again. we are here for you.elliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01956209841026195618noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163185307868339292006-11-11T06:01:00.000+11:002006-11-11T06:01:00.000+11:00That is an inspiring story of action, self-realiza...That is an inspiring story of action, self-realization, and empowerment. I wish you the best as you move forward and try to regain the bond you once had.<BR/><BR/>I run a relationship advice / exploration site. Would you mind if I shared your story with my readers?<BR/><BR/>Andrew<BR/><A HREF="http://lovehonoranddismay.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">To Love, Honor and Dismay</A>Andrew McAllisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07210761023973607515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163181083886665162006-11-11T04:51:00.000+11:002006-11-11T04:51:00.000+11:00Brave. Strong. Courageous.Yes, you are.I am pullin...Brave. Strong. Courageous.<BR/>Yes, you are.<BR/>I am pulling you for, girl.Tiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03241317724344837345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163178983413972492006-11-11T04:16:00.000+11:002006-11-11T04:16:00.000+11:00It is easier to hurt the ones we love. I did it to...It is easier to hurt the ones we love. I did it to BigP because it was safe. He couldn't fire me like my boss could and I knew he wouldn't leave me. Once I realized what I was doing - I had to change. I didn't even know what I had been doing. A slippery slope, so easy to do.<BR/><BR/>It sounds like things are looking up for you guys. I know it won't be easy but I have faith.<BR/><BR/>I'm here for you.<BR/><BR/>Heather<BR/>bigpandme@yahoo.comBigP's Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07124157582246972372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163176430634208482006-11-11T03:33:00.000+11:002006-11-11T03:33:00.000+11:00I'm so sorry you're going through this. I want you...I'm so sorry you're going through this. I want you to know that you're in my prayers. I'm glad that you stood up for what is right. I hope this all works out and builds towards a healthy, united and beautiful future.Keeping The Faithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14175493351835098810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163170057998132012006-11-11T01:47:00.000+11:002006-11-11T01:47:00.000+11:00I am glad to hear that you are able to work on rec...I am glad to hear that you are able to work on recovering things with your husband before closing this chapter. I think it's important to say that you've done all you can, which ever direction this next few months take you. You are one brave ass girl! I hope that you find that pot of gold.xhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02110178612938574287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13214904.post-1163169127324775542006-11-11T01:32:00.000+11:002006-11-11T01:32:00.000+11:00you are all those things and more. Good luck with ...you are all those things and more. Good luck with sorting this out. It might not be all pleasant, but I know that you love each other and whatever "stuff" you get through together will make you both stronger later on. Hugs and luck to find the GOLD ...I know it's there. :)Kirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17894442143508446312noreply@blogger.com