Mrs Negative

Mrs Negative embraces her tardy Positive. Life after IVF and loving the son I never thought I'd have.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Boy Zone

22 months old.
I can't quite grasp the fact that another Birthday is approaching. A 2nd birthday.
How did this happen?


I still have not had that "I want another Baby" feeling.

...I dig deep down within my true feelings and keep coming up with "No. I don't want another baby"
Why does this bother me so much?

17 Comments:

Blogger Dixlet said...

I've followed you since before you were pregnant, stumbled across your blog via Tertia's I believe...

We are about 5 months behind you in our journey...my little guy will be 18 months on September 1st.

I can't believe two is just around the corner and I keep wondering what happened to that little baby I had...though I'm thrilled with the amazing, brilliant, spunky toddler that has shown up in his place!

I'm on the fence on another baby. We have a 16 year old (boy, my step-son), 12 year old (girl, my step-daughter) and the little guy. Having teens in the house is pretty good birth control! ;-)

It's so fun to see your pictures and feel your joy (it does come right through the type!). Thanks for sharing!

Melissa

21/8/09  
Blogger Geohde said...

Oddly enough, the fact that I had multiples makes me want to go again. Probably because my pregnancy was pretty awful and the newborn period HARD. I want the experience of a single newborn...

g

21/8/09  
Blogger Milenka said...

He is as adorable as ever, Simone! For what it's worth, I never felt the urge to have another baby once we finally had the girls. Perhaps it was being overwhelmed by two at once, perhaps I was just thankful to have finally had a successful pregnancy and the baby (babies!) I always longed for, or perhaps I just felt overwhelmed...still, I was 100% content with the girls and had no plans of more children. And then we founf out that we were several months along with Fox, and...wow. I still cannot tell you how I feel about 3 kids under 3, and Fox is 13 months old now. If you are happy as a family of three, then I say go for it! *hug* Can you even believe we spent so many months as cycle buddies and finally made it!?!?!

21/8/09  
Blogger Spanglish said...

Maybe it's because IF treatment fucking sucks? I'll NEVER go there again.

21/8/09  
Blogger Piccinigirl said...

wow, he is gorgeous, just getting cuter every day.

I too, can't believe how big our little baby boys are getting. 2 is right around the corner...and it's delightful and sad isn't it???

I also, don't want another baby. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have a girl..but then I remember Gio and Jacob and how much fun they are, how I got two miracles and why ask for more than that, and I'm content. Nothing wrong with that...

hugs to you....love the pics, he's sooooo cute!

21/8/09  
Blogger serenity said...

Thank you for saying this. Because O is almost 18 months and I still haven't had that "I want another baby" feeling. I'm truly conflicted about that. Because theoretically I want a sibling for O. But I don't want to go through IVF and doctors and the newborn fog, either.

So thank you for saying this.

And my favorite picture is him in the tub.

xxx

22/8/09  
Blogger Lut C. said...

Love the pictures!

Why does it bother you? Embrace not wanting a second. ART still sucks even if it's for a second child. I wish I could talk myself out of wanting a second child.

22/8/09  
Blogger Pixxiee said...

Does having one mean you really have to want to have another? At 18 weeks with my miracle, I just know this is the one and only and am considering having hubby get fixed so we don't have an accident. And doesn't that sound completely wrong?

I think you are just in love with your Cooper, with your life and you are content. And happy. And that's all there is to it.

He is adorable. I think I am having a girl (will know soon) but your pics of Cooper make me think a boy would be very cool too!

23/8/09  
Anonymous gemini-girl said...

My girls are going to be two in November. How did this happen!?

I was reding thorugh my blog archives and saw how much you used to comment on my blog (as we were pg at the same TIME!) And look at us now! I wish you blogged more! we all miss you lady.

Your little one is freaking adorable, I want to eat him up. tell him he has two girlfriends to choose from in new york.

3/9/09  
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