Mrs Negative

Mrs Negative embraces her tardy Positive. Life after IVF and loving the son I never thought I'd have.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Boy Zone

22 months old.
I can't quite grasp the fact that another Birthday is approaching. A 2nd birthday.
How did this happen?

I still have not had that "I want another Baby" feeling.

...I dig deep down within my true feelings and keep coming up with "No. I don't want another baby"
Why does this bother me so much?


Blogger Dixlet said...

I've followed you since before you were pregnant, stumbled across your blog via Tertia's I believe...

We are about 5 months behind you in our little guy will be 18 months on September 1st.

I can't believe two is just around the corner and I keep wondering what happened to that little baby I had...though I'm thrilled with the amazing, brilliant, spunky toddler that has shown up in his place!

I'm on the fence on another baby. We have a 16 year old (boy, my step-son), 12 year old (girl, my step-daughter) and the little guy. Having teens in the house is pretty good birth control! ;-)

It's so fun to see your pictures and feel your joy (it does come right through the type!). Thanks for sharing!


Blogger Geohde said...

Oddly enough, the fact that I had multiples makes me want to go again. Probably because my pregnancy was pretty awful and the newborn period HARD. I want the experience of a single newborn...


Blogger Milenka said...

He is as adorable as ever, Simone! For what it's worth, I never felt the urge to have another baby once we finally had the girls. Perhaps it was being overwhelmed by two at once, perhaps I was just thankful to have finally had a successful pregnancy and the baby (babies!) I always longed for, or perhaps I just felt overwhelmed...still, I was 100% content with the girls and had no plans of more children. And then we founf out that we were several months along with Fox, I still cannot tell you how I feel about 3 kids under 3, and Fox is 13 months old now. If you are happy as a family of three, then I say go for it! *hug* Can you even believe we spent so many months as cycle buddies and finally made it!?!?!

Blogger Spanglish said...

Maybe it's because IF treatment fucking sucks? I'll NEVER go there again.

Blogger Piccinigirl said...

wow, he is gorgeous, just getting cuter every day.

I too, can't believe how big our little baby boys are getting. 2 is right around the corner...and it's delightful and sad isn't it???

I also, don't want another baby. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to have a girl..but then I remember Gio and Jacob and how much fun they are, how I got two miracles and why ask for more than that, and I'm content. Nothing wrong with that...

hugs to the pics, he's sooooo cute!

Blogger serenity said...

Thank you for saying this. Because O is almost 18 months and I still haven't had that "I want another baby" feeling. I'm truly conflicted about that. Because theoretically I want a sibling for O. But I don't want to go through IVF and doctors and the newborn fog, either.

So thank you for saying this.

And my favorite picture is him in the tub.


Blogger Lut C. said...

Love the pictures!

Why does it bother you? Embrace not wanting a second. ART still sucks even if it's for a second child. I wish I could talk myself out of wanting a second child.

Blogger Pixxiee said...

Does having one mean you really have to want to have another? At 18 weeks with my miracle, I just know this is the one and only and am considering having hubby get fixed so we don't have an accident. And doesn't that sound completely wrong?

I think you are just in love with your Cooper, with your life and you are content. And happy. And that's all there is to it.

He is adorable. I think I am having a girl (will know soon) but your pics of Cooper make me think a boy would be very cool too!

Anonymous gemini-girl said...

My girls are going to be two in November. How did this happen!?

I was reding thorugh my blog archives and saw how much you used to comment on my blog (as we were pg at the same TIME!) And look at us now! I wish you blogged more! we all miss you lady.

Your little one is freaking adorable, I want to eat him up. tell him he has two girlfriends to choose from in new york.

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