Mrs Negative

Mrs Negative embraces her tardy Positive. Life after IVF and loving the son I never thought I'd have.

Friday, May 14, 2010

Joy. It Be Here.

Long time between posts. Hello.
I do hope the world of IF is well.
I am still separated from my DH. We see each other regularly, things are looking up. I do hope to move back home soon.

In the meantime, life as a single Mum is joyous. Hard, but wonderful. Cooper is a delightful side-kick who keeps my humour buoyant.

My little pad is feeling more like a homely refuge instead of an empty, lonely villa. We do enjoy our gypsy style life. We visit family often, take long trips to the park & beach. I look forward to each day ahead with my son.
I am happy. I feel grown up, relaxed and important. Feelings I hadn't experienced for ages.
An unhappy marriage can bring such agony. Emotional & personal turmoil are no longer for me. I have taken control....a huge leap of faith...and I think my bravery is paying off.

Don't stay in an unhappy situation forever.
Take yourself a few steps outside of the darkness & marvel.
The sun, it shines, oh how.
Laughter finds you.
The respect you deserve is attainable.
Believe in your capabilities & seek contentment.
Wrap it around your shoulders never let it go.
It's advice I should have given myself a long time ago.
Take it, if you need it....or share it with someone you care about.

10 Comments:

Blogger Heather said...

Great to hear from you. I'm glad you are doing well.

14/5/10  
Blogger Piccinigirl said...

Mony,
you made me cry..tears of happiness and joy at your resolve...your LOVE of yourself and Cooper. He is beautiful, a happy, smiley representation of a life you deserve.

I am always happy to come here and see words, but today, your JOY found me too...hearing you happy makes me smile. You made my friday!!
love and hugs to you my friend!

14/5/10  
Blogger Piccinigirl said...

Psst..I love the new layout too..your blog is as beautiful as you!

14/5/10  
Blogger PCOSMama said...

So happy to hear that things are looking up for you! Cooper is a beautiful boy and obviously happy. You are doing a great job! I hope things continue to look up for you and that you get even happier!

15/5/10  
Blogger Thalia said...

sounds like things are pretty good,I am glad. Your boy is as gorgeous as ever.

16/5/10  
Blogger Kari said...

thinking of you often....

glad you have found peace.....




Kari
http://amama2twins.wordpress.com

16/5/10  
Blogger Lut C. said...

Sounds like things are moving in the right direction!

Cute boy!

16/5/10  
Blogger Krista said...

So glad that things are good. Cooper is so adorable. Take care.

17/5/10  
Blogger Pixxiee said...

I am so glad to hear your joy and your zest for life, whatever it brings!

I have a gift for Cooper that I WILL send this week! First day back at the office today, and first day for Grace in daycare. I miss her so!

1/6/10  
Blogger Heather said...

I'm catching up on blogs and saw your post. Cooper is gorgeous!!! Give him lots of hugs. Try not to be so absent.

3/6/10  

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