Mrs Negative

Mrs Negative embraces her tardy Positive. Life after IVF and loving the son I never thought I'd have.

Saturday, June 23, 2007

For Better For Worse..

I was a bridesmaid Ten times before I became a Bride myself in 2002.
A real life Muriel. A Spinster, fuck it all.
I never thought I would get to be the frilly, fluffy Bridezilla.
I should have had more faith.

My dress cost $400. I was a blushing budget bride.
And sooo not a Bridezilla.
My husband is a smart man. He saw potential in me straight away
(well, straight after he'd seen my knockout cleavage)
Still hanging on, honey.


Weeeeeee! We can do this!

20 Comments:

Blogger Spanglish said...

What do you mean you've LOST YOUR DIMPLES??? NO!! Bring on the nausea, the weight gain, the back pain, the constant urination, the acne, bloody gums, stretch marks and whatever other trivial bullshit that people who have achieved successful pregnancy complain about. I can take whatever pregnancy has to give -- but LOSING MY DIMPLES?? I am totally not prepared.

You were a stunning bride.

Monday and Tuesday are around the corner... may the hours die off quickly. You're in my prayers.
xoxo

23/6/07  
Blogger Cibele said...

This post touched me a lot... it reminded of my weeding day, of how my husband and I :saw potential “ in each other and all the things my husband and I and went through in our almost 7 years of marriage and we became stronger because of it... In the near future I hope that all of this will be part of our collection of battles won!!!

You were a gorgeous bride... and I am so happy to see you holding on to your hope and believing things will be OK. I am holding on my breath with you and praying and hoping for the best outcome possible. Take care and thanks for sharing the pictures
YOU CAN DO THIS....

24/6/07  
Blogger Gemini Girl said...

I think we're getting into the bridal mood! Our beauty days are still ahead of us lady!

24/6/07  
Blogger Gemini Girl said...

You spunk!

24/6/07  
Blogger PCOSMama said...

You're a beautiful bride!

I too was a budget bride. My dress cost $500 and my entire wedding and honeymoom cost under $3000. Of course, we eloped to Jamaica so we got off easy!

Still keeping you in my prayers hon! I hope the time flies by....

24/6/07  
Blogger Dramalish said...

Dang straight you can do it! I'm thinking of you... and thinking of that gorgeous woman in that gorgeous dress.

You're a beauty, Miss Mony.
-D.

24/6/07  
Blogger topcat said...

Ohhhhhhhh! Miss Mony carries off a wedding photo in a golf cart with stylish ease!!! Absolutely beautiful mate.

Holding your hand for the next few days. xoxoxoxox

24/6/07  
Anonymous OvaGirl said...

Beautiful pics without a trace of Bridezilla-ness. And I love your bouquet. Almost as much as your bridal car!

Good to dwell on the beauty and love in your life at this point Mony. Hang in there.

24/6/07  
Blogger Gil said...

What great pics! No Bridezilla there Mony hon. And that golfcart!? You go girl! *snaps fingers*

Like you, I got myself a pretty inexpensive dress ($500) and the whole event cost us less than $3000 (we got married at a lighthouse and had the reception at my parents' home). It was so worth it; we have wonderful memories.

Love (and life) are crazy rides. But together, you'll make it.

25/6/07  
Blogger Robin said...

What a beautiful couple, and what a beautiful baby you will have.

25/6/07  
Blogger Becks said...

The photos are stunning - you looked beautiful.

Good luck for tomorrow - thinking of you.

25/6/07  
Blogger Sarah said...

gorgeous photos! especially the bottom two, they really show a couple in love. you do look like a couple who can conquer anything! hoping for you...

25/6/07  
Blogger Nina said...

Stunning, and freaking hot...didn't get a too good look at the cleavage though, so can't comment on that :-).

Just wanted to wish you the best of luck tomorrow for your amnio. I have all the hope and faith in the world that Hef will be just as perfect as he can be....I mean with a name like Hef, what could not be perfect, right?

Many hugs.

25/6/07  
Blogger Mary Ellen and Steve said...

You are a beautiful bride Mony.

Good luck tomorrow.

26/6/07  
Blogger SaraS-P said...

That's quite a lovely budget wedding dress!

26/6/07  
Blogger Hopeful Mother said...

Continuing to pray for you here, Mony.

Also, nothing about your wedding looks "budget" to me! I, too, got a dress for under $500 - I would have felt weird doing anything else!

26/6/07  
Anonymous Kath said...

Dear Mony, I came here via Nina's blog. What a lovely, lovely bride you were!

I wanted to wish you all the best for your amnio tomorrow. May all your fears be laid to rest. I'll be thinking of you.

26/6/07  
Blogger Piccinigirl said...

what a beautiful bride. I love every single picture.

I am thinking good good thoughts for you today. Even Mr Kir is praying and wanted me to tell you that he's thinking of both of you.

27/6/07  
Blogger heleen said...

Hey babe, hope everything is ok with you, will be checking your blog. Thinking of you.

27/6/07  
Blogger Stacie said...

Hoping all is well...

Hugs!

27/6/07  

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