Mrs Negative

Mrs Negative embraces her tardy Positive. Life after IVF and loving the son I never thought I'd have.

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

1 in 3

I knew I could count on you girls to "circle the wagons".
I've seen it done so many times before. There must be countless women out there who have recieved the kind words of cyber sisters when SBHH (something bad has happened) (Gosh I miss Grrl) It's so theraputic. So warming. You need that support. Thank You.
I am OK.
I am sad. But OK. I am loathe to complain because I have much to be thankful for. In particular I am thankful for my 2 frozen embryo's. I will be doing an FET next cycle, it's only 5-6 weeks away. I am thankful for a reprieve from a fresh cycle which frankly, kicked my arse.

I met 2 lovely ladies through my clinic (real life infertility sisters!) We became a little gang. A hopeful trio. We all had our eggs retrieved & transfers carried out on the same days. We exchanged email addresses and decided to keep in touch. From the three of us one got pregnant (interesting that the successful one is 40 years old compared to us other two who are both in our early 30's) I was filled with renewed hope at my friend's success. I love a success story!
The 1 in 3 (33%) success rate for IVF sounds pretty darn accurate.
I am going to have to get myself together before the next onslaught. Enough sadness.

On a completely different topic.....have a look at our lovely twisted sister, Heleen.
She's married!
Ever wondered what your pet horses should wear to your Wedding? Doesn't everyone look amazing!


Blogger Millie said...

I'm amazed at how well you're handling this. You sound so great and your attitude is fantastic. I wish you the very best luck with your frozen cycle. I'm planning my own fet in the next few weeks.

Blogger Thalia said...

I'm glad one of your RL IF sisters made it across the wall. You sound in incredibly good shape - let's look forward to that FET!

Blogger Mellie said...

Dear Mony - I'm so glad to read that your spirits aren't so down and that you're doing okay. It's hard. But I think it's great that you're already to move forward with the next step - and it IS wonderful that you have the FET to try next. You are one strong woman - and I'm looking forward to staying with you on the next leg of this journey.

Blogger N said...

Mony I am really glad to read that you are OK, though sad you seem to be in OK condition. I also love to hear success stories, so thanks for sharing the one of your real life IF sisters'. So the FET is ahead, that's good! And not even that far away! I keep as usual all my fingers crossed for you!

Take good care of yourself!


Anonymous Jill said...

I'm so sad to hear that your cycle didn't turn out as you had hoped, but I'm glad that you are doing okay despite the disappointment. I really admire the way that you are happy for the woman in your trio whose IVF cycle resulted in a pregnancy; you have a generous spirit, Mony.

Anonymous llama said...

I'm so glad to hear you're getting through this OK, Mony.

We're all here for you and hoping madly that the FET kicks ass!

Blogger Lut C. said...

A FET so soon, that's wonderful. I'm crossing my fingers. :-)

Blogger Sparkle said...

I'm so glad you have two in the freezer. Were these frozen at Day 5? Pretty good odds on success ...
Great attitude, only way to be.

Blogger Just another Jenny said...

Your strength and grace amaze me. You have a great outlook on life.
With your FET, we should be doing transfer around the same time. I figure mine will be about the end of April.
I feel kinda guity about all my complaining. You are one fabulous woman!

Blogger Mony said...

Jenny! I am so excited that we will be running the IVF gauntlet together! Thanks for all your lovely comments of's easy to see why you've fit in so perfectly with our sisterhood. You're quite adorable!
Don't feel guilty about complaining. Our blogs are usually the one place we can moan & bitch in complete comfort!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thanks for the link to the lovely wedding. I'd only ever seen horses with flowers in their manes on carousels and on Mary Poppins.

I admire your positive attitude.

Blogger Mary Ellen and Steve said...

I am sorry to hear that you did not get your BFP from your last cycle. It sounds like you have a good outlook on everything though. The fact that you are able to be happy for your friend who was successful is a testament to the fact that you have a great attitude. I hope that your FET gives you your BFP.

Mary Ellen

Blogger Tiff said...

That is so wonderful that you found these women at your clinic. The next cycle is the 30 Somethings Turn!!

Blogger Beth said...

I just have to tell you that even 5 days later I am still chuckling about your suggestion to use my guts pictures for this year's Christmas cards. I am so sorry that things turned out the way they did this cycle and I admire your positive outlook.

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