The Time Capsule
My mum is a sentimental hoarder.
I did not inherit this trait.
She has always found it very difficult to part with trinkets, cards, letters, gifts if there is an emotional connection. As a child, I wrote my mum a continual stream of love letters on tiny scraps of paper, usually my notes consisted of a pledge like this:
To Mummy,
I love you.
You are the prettiest and best mum...Love Simone
I would always draw a bird or small creature that would be saying "True!" or "Really!"
She kept every one.
Earlier this year she moved from a 3 bedroom house to a 1 bedroom unit. The downsize suited her, but it meant she had to be very strict on herself & part with many space consuming "treasures".
She filled a box for me & each of my brothers with items she had kept over the years, now ours to hoard....or sort through.
I only went through my box this weekend. I was in raptures unpacking all my childhood goodies. I hadn't seen some of these things for many years. She kept our baby books. Every snippet of information recorded. Our 1st words, a lock of hair at 6 weeks, 6 months...2 years. My baby clothes, booties and hats. My kindy school apron, my first teddy, dolls, my favourite cassettes (Anne Murray: There's a Hippo in My Bathtub) Countless delights. I cooed & purred at toys, jewellry boxes, books. The memories flooding in. I loved these things as a kid.
I have never been more thankful that Mum was a sentimental hoarder. Who knew so much joy could be found under layers of dust?
Thank you Mumma. You are the prettiest and best mum. True, really.
12 Comments:
What a lovely discovery chest, I can imagine it brought back lots of lovely memories.
My mom was never a "hang it on the fridge" kind of mom. I eventually started to assume she threw the things I made her away. Years later, when I was snooping for hidden Christmas presents, I found a box of things I had made/drawn. It was better than Christmas presents, it was buried treasure. Tangible memories. Good times.
ahhhh... what a wonderful post. And I love the pictures. And did you mean to spill your real name?
oh I loved this post, whenever I am really down I go to my moms and look through all the photo albums and see where I came from and came through. It is an amazing feeling.
Love the pictures, you and your mom REALLY do ROCK!
I wonder what my mother kept out of all my craftworks. We moved quite a lot, so I guess it's a pretty strict selection.
How nice to have the nice memories to recall.
That is so sweet!
very sweet post, aren't mommies the best!
It sounds like you were as sweet of a daughter as she was a sweet mother!
I inherited my mother's claustrophobia which means we both toss out our stuff on a regular basis because burgeoning clutter makes us anxious... and we both often regret what we discard. How lovely for you to have your mother's treasures.
That is incredibly sweet Mony. I missed reading you.
Ha! When I moved out and got married, I got many school projects/homemade Christmas ornaments, and cards to mom back. It was so fun to go through all of it and it felt like I was right back there in 2nd grade
Yes, she is indeed. What a lovely caring mumma.
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